First post here and I have a question on softness vs hardness rating on onaholes. First question is there a comprehensive list of hard vs soft onaholes? Most of my onaholes are NPG brand onaholes. Extreme Pleasure Hip Mini 2 Rika Mari, Creampie Orgasm Honoka Mihara, Meiki Creation Yuria Satomi, Sujiman Kupa Lolinco Virgo, and
Mao-Man Real Hole.
My first onahole was Yuria Satomi it was listed as an eight on softness. To this day it's the most durable and stimulating onaholes I own. Honaka Mihara is similar , but not as good, the Rika Mari mini hip is also very stimulating for me. The Suji Kupa Virgo is great for me as well. The Mao Man real hole is the first time I've been truly disappointed in the toy in general. Way too soft for me and it's like I'm sticking my dick in mush with no stimulation.
To lower the risk of future disappointments I was hoping someone had a comprehensive list of rating of hard to soft for a reference. I'm currently about to pull the trigger on the zxy and EXE's Julia+. Thank you in advance for anyone able to help.
Mao-Man Real Hole.
My first onahole was Yuria Satomi it was listed as an eight on softness. To this day it's the most durable and stimulating onaholes I own. Honaka Mihara is similar , but not as good, the Rika Mari mini hip is also very stimulating for me. The Suji Kupa Virgo is great for me as well. The Mao Man real hole is the first time I've been truly disappointed in the toy in general. Way too soft for me and it's like I'm sticking my dick in mush with no stimulation.
To lower the risk of future disappointments I was hoping someone had a comprehensive list of rating of hard to soft for a reference. I'm currently about to pull the trigger on the zxy and EXE's Julia+. Thank you in advance for anyone able to help.
Jonarby ( 592 )
@Seacucumber81 Unfortunately you can't accurately judge a "softness" factor for any given onahole, I've learned that very quickly.
Softness is relative and with Onaholes the manufacturers almost exclusively use their own proprietary materials with little to no overlap with other companies.
Since softness is relative you'd need to have someone go and try virtually every onahole to get a good comprehensive comparison of softness and even than 2 onaholes with the same material might be different softness. Let's assume that someone did make this metaphorical list, that would only give a comprehensive softness rating for them. What may be a 5 softness for them might be a 7 or 8 for you.
Since softness is relative unfortunately there's not really much you can do other than avoid softer onaholes in general. Here on ToyDemon they have their own internal "softness filter" the issue is that less than half of their current stock actually has a rating, so you'd be missing out on toys that would be perfect for you but simply don't have a rating so you'd be filtering them out.
My best advice to you is to is for every onahole you buy pay attention to the material it's made out of and make your own internal list of what does and doesn't work for you, most brands I've seen actively state the name of their proprietary material on the product page. This does mean you're still taking the burden of trying out onaholes you may not like which would cost you money, but after awhile you'd get a general idea about what materials you did and did not enjoy and start basing your purchases off of that.
Softness is relative and with Onaholes the manufacturers almost exclusively use their own proprietary materials with little to no overlap with other companies.
Since softness is relative you'd need to have someone go and try virtually every onahole to get a good comprehensive comparison of softness and even than 2 onaholes with the same material might be different softness. Let's assume that someone did make this metaphorical list, that would only give a comprehensive softness rating for them. What may be a 5 softness for them might be a 7 or 8 for you.
Since softness is relative unfortunately there's not really much you can do other than avoid softer onaholes in general. Here on ToyDemon they have their own internal "softness filter" the issue is that less than half of their current stock actually has a rating, so you'd be missing out on toys that would be perfect for you but simply don't have a rating so you'd be filtering them out.
My best advice to you is to is for every onahole you buy pay attention to the material it's made out of and make your own internal list of what does and doesn't work for you, most brands I've seen actively state the name of their proprietary material on the product page. This does mean you're still taking the burden of trying out onaholes you may not like which would cost you money, but after awhile you'd get a general idea about what materials you did and did not enjoy and start basing your purchases off of that.
FluffyLove ( 29 )
@Seacucumber81 This is something I'd love to have as well. To complicate the issue, some items have 2 layers, but only one softness rating. Often the soft material is on the outside, so that the hole rated as a 9, ends up being a 7 on the inside and a 9 out. Tightness also plays a factor in whether it feels soft (depends on both the thickness of the dick and the size of the chamber - which may vary in a toy with choke points). As does the thickness of the walls (thicker walls will feels firmer than the same toy made with the same material but thinner walls).
To make matters worse, sometimes Toy Demons ratings don't seem right. For example, I got excited when I saw there were some products rated as softness 10, only to find they were my beloved Tomax.
I love these things, but their softest material (the Rich Soft, which I have in the Venus Clone) is only a 8 (it's just a little firmer than the Fuwa Pocha Torori-Na Long, which TD rates an 8 and is made of their "softee touch" material). I also have a Tomax in Regular softness (Lilith Uterus), and I'd say it's about a 5 or a 4 on TD's scale (at a guess, that would put their lineup something like: rich soft: 8, very soft: 7, soft: 6, regular: 5, hard: 4). I recently bought the "Voluptuous Wife Creampie" which is about the same softness as the Regular.
If anyone wants to expand on this list you get mega props. You just need to own one or more of the ones I've listed, and use the rating I've given it. Then base your ratings of the others you own off that. It's not perfect, but outside of having someone with a ton of toys do it, I don't see a good way.
Last note, since I was looking for the softest toy, I asked around. The general wisdom is that anything with "fuwa" or "fluffy" in the name should be the softest versions. (So if you don't like soft, you should avoid these.)
To make matters worse, sometimes Toy Demons ratings don't seem right. For example, I got excited when I saw there were some products rated as softness 10, only to find they were my beloved Tomax.
I love these things, but their softest material (the Rich Soft, which I have in the Venus Clone) is only a 8 (it's just a little firmer than the Fuwa Pocha Torori-Na Long, which TD rates an 8 and is made of their "softee touch" material). I also have a Tomax in Regular softness (Lilith Uterus), and I'd say it's about a 5 or a 4 on TD's scale (at a guess, that would put their lineup something like: rich soft: 8, very soft: 7, soft: 6, regular: 5, hard: 4). I recently bought the "Voluptuous Wife Creampie" which is about the same softness as the Regular.
If anyone wants to expand on this list you get mega props. You just need to own one or more of the ones I've listed, and use the rating I've given it. Then base your ratings of the others you own off that. It's not perfect, but outside of having someone with a ton of toys do it, I don't see a good way.
Last note, since I was looking for the softest toy, I asked around. The general wisdom is that anything with "fuwa" or "fluffy" in the name should be the softest versions. (So if you don't like soft, you should avoid these.)
Sidon ( 45 )
@FluffyLove @Seacucumber81 I agree with the sentiments. It's really difficult to create an accurate softness scale. I prefer very soft toys, and I find that the Softee Touch material by Ride Japan is softer than the Very Soft by Tomax. I also find that the Tomax Rich Soft is too soft, unrealistic, and offers no sensation. Everyone has a different view on what is the right amount of soft. I'd like to see more community inputs as to the softness of toys using the TD scale of 1-10. I've bought toys that everyone called soft, but they were more like a 5 or 6, and felt like a rubber band to me, and it went straight to the trash. I guess you need to look for super soft, very soft, fluffy soft in reviews in order to find a truly soft toy.