Hi, I'm new to this kind of thing and thinking of trying onaholes out. But I'm not sure where to start. Is there any product or way I should start about this as a beginner? Is there anything I should know? Thank you.
okizeme ( 254 )
@Phrogoobin some things to consider. Get to know the difference in materials used. Some onaholes come in different levels of hardness. This means some can be very rough and others, very soft. The safest bet, is to find one that is right in the middle of both soft and hard… which would be medium firmness.
For this, I recommend a starter onahole which has medium firmness to test the waters. After you discover your preferred firmness of material, you can explore other toys that are similar in feeling.
I tend to stick to softer toys because I enjoy the edging and longer sessions. The stimulation can be lower, but it’s more relaxing and enjoyable. Medium firmness offers the best of both worlds, where the toy is not too soft, and not to overly stimulating. Harder toys I feel are for men who have a difficult time getting stimulation, so harder toys will provide that much needed stimulus from rougher and harder materials.
The next thing I would look into is your personal preference or kink. Do you like anime themes, or realistic looking toys. There are plenty to choose from. Pick one or two that might catch your eye and start there. Read reviews to give you an idea.
And lastly, take care of your toys. It’s so important to know the proper care and maintenance of them. Otherwise you’ll end up running it if left untreated after use. Get used to cleaning and drying them after every use so they don’t get ruined. I still have toys from 2 years ago because I take care of them as much as possible. These are small investments that definitely take the edge of everyday stress, so it’s good to invest in toy bags and dry sticks if you have trouble keeping toys dry after washing.
Before I leave, I’ll share some of my favorites that hopefully won’t break the bank for you.
Gal Zanmai Thick Wrap Blowjob
Fuwajyuku Long Alps Stroke
Fuwamunyu Moomoo Whisper
And, Niku Hida Ketsu Back, hope that helps
For this, I recommend a starter onahole which has medium firmness to test the waters. After you discover your preferred firmness of material, you can explore other toys that are similar in feeling.
I tend to stick to softer toys because I enjoy the edging and longer sessions. The stimulation can be lower, but it’s more relaxing and enjoyable. Medium firmness offers the best of both worlds, where the toy is not too soft, and not to overly stimulating. Harder toys I feel are for men who have a difficult time getting stimulation, so harder toys will provide that much needed stimulus from rougher and harder materials.
The next thing I would look into is your personal preference or kink. Do you like anime themes, or realistic looking toys. There are plenty to choose from. Pick one or two that might catch your eye and start there. Read reviews to give you an idea.
And lastly, take care of your toys. It’s so important to know the proper care and maintenance of them. Otherwise you’ll end up running it if left untreated after use. Get used to cleaning and drying them after every use so they don’t get ruined. I still have toys from 2 years ago because I take care of them as much as possible. These are small investments that definitely take the edge of everyday stress, so it’s good to invest in toy bags and dry sticks if you have trouble keeping toys dry after washing.
Before I leave, I’ll share some of my favorites that hopefully won’t break the bank for you.
Gal Zanmai Thick Wrap Blowjob
Fuwajyuku Long Alps Stroke
Fuwamunyu Moomoo Whisper
And, Niku Hida Ketsu Back, hope that helps
Phrogoobin ( 5 )
@okizeme Thank you kindly for the information! I purchased the beginner bundle with the Unbearable Lip Doll! I'll keep much of this in mind and definitely check out your recommendations! I'll buy a few of them!
AHistorian ( 188 )
@Phrogoobin @okizeme gave you solid advice.
A few points that overlap I'm sure is:
1. Be prepared for the cleanup before you ever start. Drying sticks, towels, toy soap/cleaner, thoughts about storage bags and/or containers to store your sleeves if not in the original boxes. Cleaning and drying are of utmost importance for lessening any mold growth which can lead to other illness problems. No need to be scared, just cognizant. Starting from the get go will set your habits correctly and you can get years out of sleeves with proper care.
2. Single Layer vs Dual/Triple Layer onaholes. Singles can usually be turned inside out to clean and dry, Dual or Triple Layer you'll never want to do that or you will tear up the toy.
3. I concur with trying to find your softness and what "works for you." I lean towards softer sleeves with more realistic presentation of the sleeve. I like to see something that looks closer to "real." What I can say is find a starting point and go from there. An NPG ZXY 005 is the Queen Ona and is a lot of guys "first." It gets referenced as a benchmark ona often and it has earned that title for more than 10 years of consistent sales. Another is a Tomax Venus Real in Soft- about 90% of gents love this sleeve in this softness and it is right in the middle softness range Tomax offers (there are 5.)
4. I recommend taking into consideration your length and girth. Some sleeves are raved about but they don't fit everyone. Some sleeves you need length or you miss out on a cervix, and some sleeves blow folks away but only have 4.5" tunnels and you may not enjoy only being able to fit 60% in.
5. Take reviews with a grain of salt. Something that I personally find "mind blowing" may end up "meh" for you. This is a highly personalized journey. What makes a sleeve feel amazing to you will depend on your sensitivity, your real life experiences and how you use it (stroke with it, or lay it down on a surface and bang it.) Different kinds and amounts of Lubes will also make a huge difference in your experience.
Just read some reviews, find a place to start and build from there. You will find sleeves that you don't like. You'll find sleeves that curl your toes! You'll find sleeves that feel almost as good as the real deal, and you'll find one's that you wish you didn't buy, but you won't know until you slap down the price of admission and take the ride!
A few points that overlap I'm sure is:
1. Be prepared for the cleanup before you ever start. Drying sticks, towels, toy soap/cleaner, thoughts about storage bags and/or containers to store your sleeves if not in the original boxes. Cleaning and drying are of utmost importance for lessening any mold growth which can lead to other illness problems. No need to be scared, just cognizant. Starting from the get go will set your habits correctly and you can get years out of sleeves with proper care.
2. Single Layer vs Dual/Triple Layer onaholes. Singles can usually be turned inside out to clean and dry, Dual or Triple Layer you'll never want to do that or you will tear up the toy.
3. I concur with trying to find your softness and what "works for you." I lean towards softer sleeves with more realistic presentation of the sleeve. I like to see something that looks closer to "real." What I can say is find a starting point and go from there. An NPG ZXY 005 is the Queen Ona and is a lot of guys "first." It gets referenced as a benchmark ona often and it has earned that title for more than 10 years of consistent sales. Another is a Tomax Venus Real in Soft- about 90% of gents love this sleeve in this softness and it is right in the middle softness range Tomax offers (there are 5.)
4. I recommend taking into consideration your length and girth. Some sleeves are raved about but they don't fit everyone. Some sleeves you need length or you miss out on a cervix, and some sleeves blow folks away but only have 4.5" tunnels and you may not enjoy only being able to fit 60% in.
5. Take reviews with a grain of salt. Something that I personally find "mind blowing" may end up "meh" for you. This is a highly personalized journey. What makes a sleeve feel amazing to you will depend on your sensitivity, your real life experiences and how you use it (stroke with it, or lay it down on a surface and bang it.) Different kinds and amounts of Lubes will also make a huge difference in your experience.
Just read some reviews, find a place to start and build from there. You will find sleeves that you don't like. You'll find sleeves that curl your toes! You'll find sleeves that feel almost as good as the real deal, and you'll find one's that you wish you didn't buy, but you won't know until you slap down the price of admission and take the ride!